By:Nicole Hajjar
In the novel, My Sister’s Keeper, there are two main themes, right vs. wrong, and sisterhood.
The
novel illustrates the fine line between what is right and what is wrong. Kate
is dying from cancer but can be saved with her sister Anna’s kidney. There is
no legal obligation for Anna to donate her organ. The surgery would be painful
for Anna, and carries some severe health risks. She has already undergone
several operations in order to prolong Kate’s prognosis. Her mother Sara believes
she must do whatever it takes to save Kate, she cannot view life without her. However
her father Brian struggles to find the right answer. He is guilty for putting
Anna through so much for Kate, and is able to accept fatal state.
Anna
struggles to find herself, and believes she only has one purpose in life, to
save Kate’s. She is aware that her mother and father, with the help of a geneticist,
chose her so she could help her sister. Kate’s brother Jesse was not a match. She
describes how most kids are really just accidents, and comprehends her
responsibility as Kate’s sister. She feels as though she should save Kate, but
also wants to develop an individual identity. Throughout the novel, she
describes how life would be easier without Kate and feels as though she could
live without her. However, she does not want to upset her mother, and has a
hard time telling her that she won’t save Kate.
In
the courtroom, Judge DeSalvo also has difficulty determining what is acceptable
and what is not. Campbell, representing Anna, tries to explain that she has no
obligation to donate, and that she has already done so in the past. Sara, representing
herself, and her husband Brian, expresses her concern for both her daughters.
However, she insists Anna must donate to Kate because it is the right thing to
do. Brian feels more guilty about what they have put Anna through while trying
to save Kate but cannot decided what to do. In the end, Anna receives medical emancipation,
and her lawyer receives her medical power of attorney.
Right vs. wrong quotes
“There are so many things that I have to work
hard at now, that I used to be able to carry out instinctively-draw in oxygen,
keep my silence, do the right thing.” - Anna
“There are some things we do because we convince
ourselves it would be better for everyone involved. We tell ourselves that it’s
the right thing to do…” - Campbell
“‘The
answer is that there is no good answer. So as parents, as doctors, as judges,
and as a society, we fumble through and make decisions that allow us to sleep
at night—because morals are more important than ethics, and love is more
important than law.’” - Judge DeSalvo
“See,
unlike the rest of the free world, I didn’t get here by accident. And if your
parents have you for a reason then that reason better exist. Because once it’s
gone, so are you.” - Anna
“They
don’t really pay attention to me, except when they need my blood or something.
I wouldn't be alive, if it wasn’t for Kate being sick. - Anna”
“Although
I am nine months pregnant, although I have had plenty of time to dream, I have
not really considered the specifics of this child. I have thought of this
daughter only in terms of what she will be able to do for the daughter I
already have. I haven’t admitted this to Brian, who lies at night with his head
on my considerable belly, waiting for the twitches that herald-he thinks-the
first female placekicker for the Patriots. Then again, my dreams for her are no
less exalted; I plan for her to save her sister’s life.” - Sara
“‘When we had Anna,’ I
remind Brian, ‘We knew that she was going to be a donor for Kate.’” - Sara
“‘Once. And she doesn’t
have any memory of us doing that to her.’” - Brian
“‘She is dying Sara. She will die, either tonight or tomorrow
or maybe a year from now if we’re really lucky. You heard what Dr. Chance said.
Arsenic’s not a cure. It just postpones what’s coming.’” - Brian
“‘ Certainly the
Fitzgeralds have always believed that having Kate alive and part of the family
was crucial-but at this point the sanctity of Kate’s existence has become
completely intertwined with the quality of Anna’s life…” - Judge DeSalvo
The
second theme that carries through My Sister’s
Keeper is sisterhood. There are three sets of sisters in the novel, Sara
and Zanne, Julia and Izzy, and of course Anna and Kate. Zanne helps out her
sister when there is an issue with Kate. She comes over to her house to take
care of the other kids. Sara is comforted by her sister and describes her as a ‘built-in best friend’. Julia lets
her sister Izzy move in with her when her girlfriend dumps her. She takes care
of her whenever there’s an issue.
The
main sisters in the novel are Anna and Kate. They both love each other very
much, and share a literal bond. Kate has Anna’s blood constantly flowing in her
veins. Anna is Kate’s savior, the one that has made it possible for her to
live. Several operations and procedures later though, Anna finds herself
seeking medical emancipation to terminate her role as a hero. We learn that
Kate was actually the one who wanted the lawsuit because she felt so bad for
her sister. In the end, Anna is the one who passes away tragically. Her kidney
goes to Kate, who lives out her dream to become a dance teacher. She has a hard
time getting over losing her sister, and blames herself for Anna’s death. Time
passes, and life grows easier for Kate. She knows that her and her sister will
always share a special bond.
Sisterhood quotes
“Jesse
is wrong-I didn’t come to see Kate because it would make me feel better. I came
because without her, it’s hard for me to remember who I am.” - Anna
“If
you have a sister and she dies, do you stop saying you have one? Or are you
always a sister, even when the other half of the equation is gone?” - Anna
“Only
one thing’s a constant. ‘Ten years from now,’ I say, ‘I’d like to be Kate’s
sister.’” - Anna
“Once upon a time, I thought I was put on this
earth to save my sister. In the end, I couldn't do it. I realize now, that
wasn't the point. The point was, I had a sister. She was fantastic! One day I'm
sure I'll see her again. But until then, my relationship continues..... ” -
Anna
“Zanne strokes my hair
and lets me cry. ‘It is so hard sometimes,’ I confess, words I have not said to
anyone, not even Brian.” - Sara
“She is the person I ran
to when I got my period; the one who helped me knit back together my first
broken heart; the hand I would reach for in the middle of the night when I
could no longer remember which side our father parted his hair on, or what it
sounded like when our mother laughed. No matter what she is now, before all
that, she was my built-in best friend. ‘Zanne?’ I say. ‘How are you.’” -Sara
“Isobel is three minutes
older than me, but I’ve always been the one who takes care of her. I’m her
nuclear bomb: when there’s something upsetting her, I go in and lay waste to
it, whether that’s one of our six older brothers teasing her or the evil Janet,
who decided she wasn’t gay after seven years into a committed relationship with
Izzy.” -Julia
1.) Do you find that Anna’s choice to seek medical emancipation selfish? If so, why?
2.) Do you think Judge DeSalvo made the right choice in granting Anna medical emancipation? What would you have done if you were the judge?
3.)If you were Anna, do you think you would share her struggle to find individuality or take pride in saving your sister?
4.) Do you think it was right for Anna’s parents to put her through painful and sometimes risky operations in order to save Kate?
5.) Do you think Sara and Brian neglected Anna and Jesse? If so, why?
6.) If you were Kate, do you think you would share her struggle to deal with the guilt of putting your sister through so many operations, or would you simply find them necessary? Explain.
7.) Do you agree with Sara’s choice to see a geneticist in order to choose a baby that would be a perfect match for Kate? Explain.
8.) Has there ever been a situation where you had a hard time defining the line between right and wrong? Explain.
9.) All the sisters in the novel share a special bond with each other. Do you have a sibling that you are closely connected you? Explain.
10.) Which theme do you think was more important to the
novel, right vs. wrong or sisterhood? Explain.